How to pickup women at Bar/Nightclub? Complete guide

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Here’s a complete guide how to Pickup Women at Bar or Nightclub and Get Laid. This guide can be applied either going with your friends or going solo by yourself(The Boss way).

Both ways gets you laid.


The Preparation and How to Dress when you go Pickup Women at Bar or Club

It’s time to Get Laid from Bar/Nightclub!

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Other notes before going to Bar

One important thing what you should not do before going pickup women at Bar, is to masturbate. This will instantly kill your motivation and you are more likely making up reasons why to not go out there.

Also, if you are taking alcohol, you are less likely getting that whiskey dick when you are don’t fap before. If you are anxious about getting it up, check this post about boosting male performance.

If you are too nervous about going alone, drink example a couple of beers and listen some music that pumps you up for lessening the anxiety. You don’t need this after you got good at this, but if you are just starting, this can be a good way to relax a little bit. If you haven’t read about yet this post about how to get over the anxiety of approaching women, read it here.

I was myself so nervous when I went the first night alone, that I had to take some alcohol. After this I went on sober thought, and that’s when the best development happens. After you go sober out of your comfort zone, the comfort zone will dramatically expand. Do this again on drunk afterwards, and you feel unstoppable.

At the Bar/Club

1. Investigate

Enter the club and grab a drink if you feel so. This will relax you a little bit. I take a beer or just water, depending if I’m thirsty for beer at the moment. I don’t take alcohol for lessening the anxiety, as I’ve done this so many times I can do this sober too. You will too if you already don’t, after you get good at this and get the experience. I can say it’s pretty relieving feeling when your dating life isn’t dependent of alcohol. This also saves a lot of money.

Walk around and take a look at how’s the crowd there. If there is a ratio of 90:10 guys to girls, just change the bar to another where is more girls. I may try to pickup these few first, but it’ll probably go nowhere. Sometimes I had succeed to pull on cases where there were mostly guys, but that’s rare, so I prefer places where are more opportunities.

2. Approaching

After wandering around and realizing a good possibilities of women you would be attracted to, start cold approaching immediately. This way you get on the mood and outgoing vibe, and won’t just stuck in the table.

There are nights when I have been luckily on the right place at the right time and pulled the first woman I approached.

Then there are nights when I’ve gone more than 20 approaches and still didn’t managed to pull. The variance can be a huge when you pickup women at Bar.

Where to Approach when you are about to Pickup Women at Bar?

Now if you have no idea where to pickup women at Bar, these are good places:

  • Smoking room. More quiet and easy to start convos like asking a light.
  • At bar when getting drinks. It’s good place to start convos, and get out easily if it’s not going anywhere.
  • Dance Floor. (Easy way to Pickup Women and get Laid)
  • Quiet spots (These rarely appear in nightclubs)
Not as good places:
  • Girls sitting at table. 3 is a good amount. If they are just 2 of them, you need to entertainment her friend so she won’t cockblock you. Sometimes though it’s okay for her friend if you are just 3 of you there to have all the time with you and her. 3 of girls is better, as now they have 2 of them still left to hang out each other and you can have all the time with the girl you are picking up.
Bad places:
  • People having their own inside social circle. Usually bunch of guys and girls who are only together and don’t socialize none out of their circle. Not only if you are picking up girl from this kind of group, there usually comes the jealousy guys trying to cockblock you. Avoid these, so you don’t waste time.

How to open?

Earlier I used to mass approach and go for inside groups I mentioned above, even I knew it wouldn’t go anywhere. It was back then just training to get rid of approach anxiety and expand my comfort zone. Now I only approach these who I know I would have chances, like not jumping on those inside circles.

Examples of how to open conversation:

  • “Hello, how’s your night going so far? you are cute btw”
  • “Hi you are hot, wanna dance?”
  • “You are both cute, how’s your night?”
  • “You have a lighter” [she gives a light] “Thx, you are cute btw, I’m …[hand shake]”

Showing your intentions right away that you are attracted to her and want to f@#k her is way to go when you pickup women at Bar.

Not some indirect opening lines where she may think you just want to have a conversation with her. It’s not a desperate move to compliment her, at least when you aren’t doing it too much.

On club environment it’s all about you want to f@#k . The earlier you show your intentions, the better. She will anyway decide in the first few minutes of your encounter either she will have sex with you or not. So it’s just better to make clear that you are the Man who do what he want’s and is confident enough to be straight about this. Not playing some stupid games.

After Pickup Line

After opening, have a little small talk. Somewhere around 5-15 minutes is good enough time of talking.

Then you start escalating physically and building the sexual tension.

After opening, have a little small talk. Somewhere around 5-15 minutes is good enough time of talking.

Then you start escalating physically and building the sexual tension.

It isn’t necessary to have step by step escalating routine when you pickup women at Bar. Example routine


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